Do these scenarios sound familiar?
- You have a colleague who is a micro manager. This person tries to do everything themselves or tries to get others to do everything their way. They don't listen to advice. They overwork and complain that they get to help or support. They become increasingly stressed and finally burn out completely.
- You have a colleague who seems to avoid decisions. They seem to lack confidence and defer to others. They seem to be working below their potential and suffer from low self esteem.
It turns out that these behaviours are not only related but mutually support each other. There's a book written on the subject by Roger Martin, the dean of the business school at the University of Toronto.
There are a lot of problems described in this book that I recognize in our company. And there are several very good solutions suggested. I will outline the basic concepts here and then describe some of the ways we are implementing the ideas to be more effective and productive.

The book is based on concepts of psychology and clinical studies of human behaviour as well as the authors many years as both a manager and business consultant. The main problem is that when people are faced with problems - with the risk of failure, they will jump to one extreme behaviour or the other. On one hand they will try to take on too much responsibility and try to fix everything. On the other hand they may back off and take little or no responsibility and wait for someone else to fix the problem. The same person may act one way in one situation and another way the next.
Martin argues that the way we react to the threat of failure depends on our governing values. Our desire to maintain control, avoid embarrassment, stay rational and our need to win will drive us to respond in one of these extreme ways:
- Assume minimal responsibility - avoid responsibility almost completely
- Assume singular responsibility - take on all the responsibility
Both of these reactions eventually result in failure.
Under responsibility lets the situation slide out of control. Avoiding Responsibility assures failure.
- Over responsibility eventually overwhelms the individual. Ironically, trying to avoid failure through assuming responsibility will lead to failure.
- Wounded by the sting of failure, the common reaction is to apply the opposite strategy in the next situation - the behaviour becomes cyclical.
The situation works within one individual and also between individuals. People influence each other. If one individual takes on responsibility, others will immediately relinquish it. If someone steps back from responsibility, someone else will take over.
Conventional thinking tells us that we are either in charge or we are not. We are either leading or we are following. Conventional thinking leads to the disproportionate allocation of responsibility and inevitably to failure.
At Space Database we have struggled with this. How do we foster a sense of responsibility? As the company has grown it has been harder to 'manage' the work in the office. We tried implementing an additional level of management to oversee production. This lead to a classic example: a production manager took on more and more responsibility and work while other staff stepped back and allowed themselves to be micro managed. The manager burnt himself out while productivity fell and deadlines slipped. We all came down with a bad case of the Responsibility Virus.
In the next post I will outline some of the ways we are trying to manage differently and to delegate responsibility more effectively.